What's up world and all those that dwell here at MFB. Oftentimes, I go through blogs (slowly, but surely that will end), facebook news, and whatever seems to be a trending topic. I've been itching to talk about Basketball Wives on my blog, but really didn't know how to approach the show due to the many elements I can't relate to.
Episode 7 (SEAS. 3) touched home with me and brought me to the realization that as women we are entirely too emotional. From the battle between Meeka and the gang to the all out argument over what Jen said about Eve's soon to be husband. Oh yeah, and Royce not being invited.
I'm not going to make this post a long and drawn out one, but I could relate to this one Episode and it brought a tiny bit of sadness to my heart.
As women or as friends, we are supposed to be as honest and clear as possible without raising our voice or wanting to beat up the other. It seems clear to me there are many who have things that they battle with in life on a daily basis, but as a friend or female friend it should be common courtesy to the other to nurture and eliminate as much negativity as possible. What are friends for?
I believe that Jen had a right to voice her opinion, but Eve knew all along how Jen felt. At the very beginning Eve should have made it clear to Jen that her relationship was off limits to the public and if Jen had any opinion about her fiance she should voice them to her (Eve) and only her. I also feel that Jen went about it in the wrong way, but I loved the fact that she stuck to her feelings and did not budge. However, does a friendship need to change over a man or men?
My ending, I have concluded that if and only if a woman who considers you to be her best friend cannot confide in you without an argument or fight, what and how are you friends or were you ever friends? I did a post a few months back about friendship and how that word and the context thereof is taken for granted. Some people may feel that a person is a best friend, simply because they've known each other for so long, but in reality they really don't know much about the other. I believe as women our emotions get so tied up that we forget the true purpose of friendship and it's not to just have a pretty hanger on or someone that's a ride or die "chick."
Friendship is love and unconditional love at that. This means no matter what or how you may feel about what that person does or says you fly above it because at the end of the day you know and believe that person loves, cares and appreciates YOU for who you are and not some man that you're dating or engaged to or even considering. Take your friends out of your dating life and find love without their opinion or input. Your personal life should elude your friends and I mean that on a serious level. We women really need to stick together!!!
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